rape

From what I've seen of sex amongst other mammals something akin to rape seems to be more or less the norm. Foreplay, delayed ejaculation, clitoral stimulation etc. seem to mean not a thing to the horny dogs in my neighbourhood. Of course the human animal is another kettle of fish entirely, possessed as it is with imaginative faculties and an ethical sense, and exposed as it is to various social influences from playgirl to "no means no" crusades. Yes, indeed, it can all become pretty complicated, so best to stick with the simple notion that while some women might "fantasize" about being erotically dominated by a real hunk of a man it isn't likely that any really want to be "raped" by you. It's a lingusitics problem as much as anything else.